Sunday, July 31, 2011

Ask Men - Part III

And let's finish this off...

1. Which gender is winning?

55%                 It's not a competition.
28%                 Men.
17%                Women.

Really, it depends on the context. Business-wise, men are winning. Socially, women are.

2. How should America reboot the economy?

35%                 Save more money through budget cuts.
23%                None of the above.
17%                 Revolution.
14%                 Spend more money, such as on stimulus.
11%                 Wait it out.

It’s called “closing the tax loopholes for the rich and making them hire Americans rather than outsourcing”.

3. Is America still a superpower?

71%                Yes, but one that is on the decline.
24%                 Yes, as much as it has ever been.
5%                   No.

Not that this matters much to those on top.

4. What keeps you up at night?

42%                 Nothing. I sleep like a baby.
26%                 Anxiety about my relationships.
23%                 Anxiety about my work.
9%                  Anxiety about the state of the world.

Seems like the closest answer to the truth, in a ‘catch all’ sort of way.

5. How do you usually share articles you've read or websites you've discovered with family and friends?

36%                 In person.
32%                On Facebook.
21%                 Over email.
5%                   Through text message.
3%                   Over the phone.
2%                   On another social network.
1%                   On Twitter.

S’where most of them are.

6. How do you usually recommend purchases to family and friends?

70%                 In person.
10%                Over the phone.
8%                   Over email.
7%                   Through text message.
5%                   Over Facebook.
1%                   Over another social network.
-1%                  Over Twitter.

Seems to be the only medium in which I talk about purchases.

7. Which of the following do you consider most likely to exist?

47%                 Aliens.
31%                Angels.
12%                 None of the above.
10%                 Ghosts.
0%                   Vampires.

Sure wasn’t any of the others.

8. Should we increase our use of nuclear power?

47%                 Yes.
23%                 No, it is too dangerous.
18%                No, it is environmentally unfriendly.
12%                 No, for another reason.

Captain Planet, he’s our hero…oh, wait.

9. Do you feel your country is prepared in the case of a natural disaster similar to the earthquakes / tsunamis that recently hit Japan?

60%                No.
21%                 Yes.
19%                 I'm not sure.

Katrina wasn’t that long ago.

10. When is a political assassination justified?

35%                 In wartime.
31%                Never.
30%                 When it is an act of preemptive defense.
4%                   When it is an act of revenge.

Understandable in wartime, but not justified.

11. If you could max out your credit card at any designer men's store, what would it be?

51%                 None of the above.
21%                Ralph Lauren.
10%                 Brooks Brothers.
10%                 Gucci.
6%                   Lacoste.
2%                   Paul Smith.

This one isn’t even close.

12. Which type of workout do you perform most regularly?

30%                Weightlifting.
21%                 Some other type of workout.
18%                 Running
14%                 I don't work out.
7%                   Biking.
5%                   P90X or other home DVD.
4%                   Swimming.
1%                   Personal Trainer.

I would run more, but beating up my lower legs isn’t fun and I can’t stand these hills.

13. Which screen do you spend the most time in front of when you are not working?

60%                Computer
19%                 Television
17%                 Phone/Mobile device
4%                   Tablet/iPad

There are times when I’m online and  the TV is off. When the TV is on, I’m in front of the computer…probably tweeting about what I’m watching.

14. If you could only have one child, would you prefer it to be a boy or a girl?

53%                A boy
33%                 Either or
14%                 A girl

Just seems easier.

14. Which of the following superheroes would you most want to be?

32%                 Superman.
25%                Batman.
21%                 Iron Man.
17%                 X-Men.
5%                   Captain America.

This one was too easy.

15. Where do you get most of your news on a daily basis?

73%                Online.
12%                 TV.
6%                   Social-media.
6%                   Newspaper.
3%                   Some other source.

I still watch a decent amount of TV news (and everyone knows why), but most of it’s online now.

16. If you could ask one person for financial advice, who would it be?

45%                Warren Buffett.
27%                 Your dad.
20%                 Donald Trump.
5%                   Suze Orman.
3%                   Jim Cramer.

May as well shoot for the top.

17. Who should have been cut some slack by the media for his sexual transgressions?

57%                None of the above. They all got what they deserved.
17%                 Anthony Weiner.
17%                 Arnold Schwarzenegger.
6%                   Dominique Strauss-Kahn.
3%                   John Edwards.

I wanted to say Edwards, but couldn’t. Wait: Weiner’s situation wasn’t as bad as the other three.

18. What type of smartphone do you have?

37%                 I don't have a smartphone.
26%                Android.
22%                 iPhone.
12%                 BlackBerry.
3%                   Windows Phone.

Team Android. All. Day.

19. Where do you most often access the movies that you watch?

24%                 Through legal download/streaming, such as from Netflix or iTunes.
18%                 At the theater.
17%                 Through illegal download/streaming, such as from PirateBay.
16%                On television (broadcast, cable or satellite).
10%                 On DVD or Blu-ray, through rental.
8%                   On DVD or Blu-ray, through purchase.
7%                   Through a "video on demand" service (cable or satellite).

I don’t have $5-10 to go see every movie in the theater.

20. Do you go to see movies at the theater?

58%                 Yes, but not as much as I used to.
30%                Yes, as much as I always have.
12%                 No, not at all.

It’s called “whenever there’s a good movie out”. Now, I may live at the theater next summer.

21. Do you still read the newspaper in its print format?

41%                Yes, but not as much as I used to.
40%                 No, not at all.
19%                 Yes, as much as I always have.

I put this on my not reading as much when I was home in June as I did previously.

22. What do you do to protect your privacy on your cell phone?

50%                Nothing. I'm not concerned about privacy on my phone.
41%                 I use my phone's security settings.
7%                   I have downloaded and use a security app.
2%                   I subscribe to a security service.

It’s my phone. Why would anyone else have it anyway?

23. What do you do to protect your privacy on Facebook?

38%                I use privacy settings on Facebook so that only my friends can view my profile.
19%                 I self-censor what I share on Facebook.
18%                 I use privacy settings on Facebook to determine what my friends are able to see.
10%                 I have never had a Facebook account.
8%                   Nothing. I'm not concerned about privacy.
7%                   I deleted my Facebook account.

I do the second one too, but I think the first is more prevalent.

24. If you're in a relationship, is "sexting" with someone else considered cheating?

74%                Yes, absolutely.
14%                 No, as long as no one is sending naked photos.
12%                 No, it is harmless fun.

I really wouldn’t consider it cheating, but it’s still wrong and I wouldn’t do it.

25. Which of the following poses the biggest threat to the United States?

46%                 The United States.
28%                China.
11%                 North Korea.
9%                   Iran.
6%                   Pakistan.

The Republicans may be killing us slowly from within, but there aren’t a billion of them.

26. Which of the following do you use the most when you are not working?

58%                Computer.
24%                 Phone / Mobile device.
14%                 Television.
4%                   Tablet / iPad.

Without question.

27. What do you use your cell phone for most?

53%                 Texting / Messaging.
29%                Talking.
11%                 Browsing the web.
5%                   Apps.
2%                   Games.
0%                   Photos / Photo sharing.

All the other stuff I can do with something else.

28. What device could you not live without?

62%                Computer.
24%                 Smartphone.
12%                 Television.
2%                   Tablet / iPad.

I’d be so lost without my laptop. Shoot, I’m somewhat lost without my desktop (need a new monitor).

29. What would you rather have?

34%                 Both.
30%                A child.
23%                 A dog.
13%                 Neither.

Lifespans are usually longer.

30. Which of the following characteristics best defines a "real man" in 2011?

48%                Being a great father and husband who takes care of his family.
23%                 Being a great leader and motivator.
11%                 Having manly skills, like the ability to fix things.
8%                   None of the above.
5%                   Being charismatic and popular.
3%                   Being wealthy.
2%                   Being a great seducer and/or lover.

That’ll always be my answer.

31. Of the choices below, which female public figure are you most tired of hearing about?

29%                 Lady Gaga.
25%                 Sarah Palin.
17%                 Kim Kardashian.
15%                 Lindsay Lohan.
8%                  None of the above.
3%                   Kate Middleton.
3%                   Pippa Middleton.

The correct answer is Hope Solo.

32. Of the choices below, which male public figure are you most tired of hearing about?

47%                 Justin Bieber.
20%                 Charlie Sheen.
12%                 Barack Obama.
8%                   Donald Trump.
6%                  None of the above.
4%                   Prince William.
3%                   Mark Zuckerberg.
0%                   Arnold Schwarzenegger.

The correct answer is still Brett Favre.

33. Do you own an iPad or an iPad 2?

71%                No, and I do not plan to purchase one in the next 12 months.
16%                 No, but I plan to purchase one in the next 12 months.
10%                 Yes.
3%                   No, but I own another tablet device.

Richelle Carey may change this, as HLN now has live streaming available on the iPad.

34. Other than for playing video games, what do you use your console (Xbox 360, PS3, Wii) for most often?

34%                 I do not own a console.
25%                I use my console strictly for gaming.
20%                 To watch TV shows and movies/films on DVD or Blu-ray.
19%                 To download or stream TV shows or movies/films.
2%                   To surf the web.
0%                   To make purchases.

I have other things to do everything else on.

35. Who do you play video games with most often?

28%                No one. I play by myself.
24%                 With my friends, in person.
23%                 I don't play video games.
16%                 With my friends, online.
9%                   With strangers, online.

This should come as a surprise to no one.

36. Where do you play video games most often?

48%                On my console (Xbox 360, PS3, Wii).
22%                 I don't play video games.
22%                 On my computer (PC, Mac).
5%                   On my mobile device (phone, iPod touch).
1%                   On my handheld gaming device (PSP, DS).
2%                   On my tablet / iPad.

I wouldn’t really think about playing video games anywhere else, unless College Town counts.

37. How do you primarily watch your favorite TV series?

37%                 On my computer, with the frequency that I download/stream them at.
28%                Episode by episode as it is broadcast live.
23%                 In batches of episodes as I rent the DVDs or as I watch them on a recording device (DVR or PVR).
12%                 I never watch TV series in their entirety.

And now I watch the replays on Saturday nights, thanks to Universal.

38. Do you watch cable or satellite TV on an actual television set?

44%                Yes, as much as I always have.
38%                 Yes, but not as much as I used to.
18%                 No, not at all.

The stuff I watch online is in addition to, not instead of, what I watch on TV.

39. Has Obama changed the international perception of the United States?

38%                Yes, for the better.
22%                 Yes, for the worse.
21%                 I don't know / I don't care.
19%                 No.

Five out of eight people obviously didn’t see the celebrations internationally when he won.

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Ask Men - Post II

Well, here we go. Part II.



1. How important is it to you what other people think of your car?

46%                 I don't really care what people think of my car.
37%                I am aware of how people perceive my car and don't want to be embarrassed by it.
17%                 I value how people perceive my car and want them to be impressed by it.

Just saying: I want it to be clean and presentable, but I’m not going out of my way to make it some magnet or whatever.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

AskMen - Post I

Ran across the AskMen survey last night. After a lot of formatting, I put in my own responses and...y'all know the drill by now. I should also note the history, as this is the first post on here that didn't go on FB first. You'll see why when you get to the questions...and add them to the fact that both my parents are FB friends. This is why Google+ needs to take off...speaking of, I'm on there. Let me know if you are too or would like an invite. Okay, back to business. This is the first of three such posts. The second will be out tomorrow, the last on Monday. There's also some interesting stuff in terms of the individual regions that answered the questions (US, Canada, UK, Australia). I'm trying to get a female friend of mine to do the same thing with the Cosmopolitan survey of the same vein (although I'd also take volunteers for that). Enough talk. Time 4 sum aksion (shout out to Redman).

Monday, July 25, 2011

The Voice Of...

One of the brothers from VSB (he’ll know who he is) made me think of this, via a response to a comment I left Friday. May as well explain it to those who are unfamiliar: the authors of VSB penned a book, and one of them used Friday’s entry to ponder possible casting ideas if the book were made into a film (from the Steve Harvey/Chris Brown collaboration).

On Display

I’m attending a firm beach party on Sunday. I thought about it this morning and I’m really going to be on display. Those of you who are (or were) black graduate students know full well of what I speak. As far as black folk, there are two sister attorneys - one of whom is the absolute truth - and me. There are about 50 people who work in this office and I think the guest list is about 75 total. As the title suggests, on display.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Silence Of The Mans

I know as a man, I'm not supposed to do certain things. I'm not supposed to wear dresses. I'm not supposed to walk on the inside. I'm not supposed to do this, I'm not supposed to do that. Fine, cool, whatever. Apparently, I'm also not supposed to talk very much - if at all.

I'm definitely not supposed to talk about my feelings...to a woman...about that woman. If I do so I'm sensitive or I'm a punk or I'm needy or I need to man up or whatever else women like to say.

Well, guess what? I'm talking. Not only that, I'm talking about the idea that I should be able to talk. Why? Two reasons. Number one, it's about time someone said something about this nonsense. Number two, because I can.

Where Have All The Good TV Show Theme Songs Gone?

Who really remembers a theme song for a show since 2000? Okay, maybe Chappelle's Show...but there were only two words. Now, think back to the 80s. I bet everyone reading this knows the first line from The Golden Girls. Most all of us can hum the theme from The Cosby Show or sing thr theme from Charles in Charge. Our parents can likely do the same with (going back to the 70s now) All In The Family. Good Times, The Jeffersons...there are just songs we'll always remember. And don't even get me started on non-sitcoms: The Greatest American Hero, The A-Team, Dallas, even The Young and The Restless...everyone over 30 should know those. The TV theme song game, though, seems to have gone the way of popular music - actually, it's even worse. Why?

Security, Prejudice, and Singlehood

Stating the obvious, security is something that we value very much. If you've been paying attention to the debt ceiling talks, you know the problems we may have with social security and how important it is. Of course, even that pales to the value that we place on personal security. Alarm companies get rich from our need for personal security. People use personal security as a basis for supporting the second amendment (and some of them actually mean it). People take self-defense classes and/or martial arts to improve their feelings about their personal security. It's obviously the most important type of security: without it, what else really matters? Oh: in case anyone asks, national security fits under personal security.

There are two other types of security that keep us from being hurt in non-physical ways...although there is many a time in which they actually hurt us. Huh? I'll explain.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

A Belated Birthday List...And A Playlist

(Ed. note: yes, it's late. I don't care. Most of it was written the day before my birthday. Anyway, makes no sense for all this to sit in the "drafts" section after I typed it.)

Decided to publish a birthday wish list on here. I know I'm too old and that people aren't going to buy me stuff. This list takes both of those things into account. Want to see how? Keep reading...

Six Tips...And Thoughts On Those Tips

Ran across a Marni Kinrys article on CNN (http://www.cnn.com/2011/LIVING/07/14/how.to.pick.up.girls/index.html) that gave men six tips on dating. Article text is in bold and regular type, comments are in italics.

(CNN) -- You have to think about picking up girls the exact same way you think about picking up a box. You just do it. Seriously. After working with thousands of men all around the world, I have found that the common issue holding men back with women is that "thing" on top of their shoulders. It thinks, analyzes and makes excuses, so rejection is self-inflicted before women even get a chance to do it.

Here are six secrets men need to know about women to help them stop that "thing" in their head from destroying their dating life:

P.I.N.S.

You know how sometimes ideas just fall into your lap? Well, that happened to me.

Somehow a certain silly idea has been allowed to manifest for enough time where people start to think this it's actual truth. As I'm not one for silliness, I feel a personal responsibility to go ahead and set the record straight. Women have been running around thinking that the power (refer to Method Man and Mary J. Blige's '95 hit if you're unsure, although it should be obvious) can get them out of any situation and allow them to treat men however they please.